MEN, I really need your input (ladies who have experience too please)?

He's feeling toyed with. You are making excuses to not meet with him and he knows it. You are not so so so so so so busy you can't make a single day for him or give him even a slightest thought for several days while he's wondering why you aren't responding. You aren't making him a priority. He is a guy. He knows if you were super super into him you'd rearrange a few things to make some time for him and give him more thought. He knows you aren't that into him. You might think he's cute, but whatever all this other stuff is, cheerleading, going out with your friends, i can only speculate... all this other stuff in effect is more important than him. He's not going to wait around forever. You either go for it or break it off. Don't play with him and lead him on.