How do i stop being an attention addict?

my husband shows me no attention accept negative and verbal abusive type attention...so i have a desire to be text by men all day and every single day...i have a married friend who text me through the week and on the weekend, he smiles in his wife face (something that i don't ever receive from my husband)....so now, i have a single friend who will text me all weekend...i'm totally addicted to attention (positive complimentary type attention)....are there support groups for this disorder?...i hate being like this...